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Being a mum brings great joys and short fuses. I’m here to help you find your way.

Being a parent is HARD.

You love your child, but you're weren't expecting the times when you don't like what's going on and you don't know how to handle the challenges and emotions bombarding you on a daily basis.

No-one prepares you for the side of motherhood that feels relentless, overwhelming, frustrating nor the times when you're racked with worry or feel like you're failing.

At Resilient Mums, we don’t want any mum to feel alone in the challenges that come with raising kids.

We’re a service that will support you at every stage of your journey, in ways that work for you.

To keep things simple, we've divided up motherhood into phases and created bespoke support that will help you navigate each one!

Read on to find out more....

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Is This You?

You love being a mum but you don’t always find it easy. You...

Feel overwhelmed by the responsibility of being a parent

Are juggling too many roles and demands

Often feel you’re not doing a good enough job

Feel guilty

Are finding it hard adapting to being a mum

Worry about getting things wrong

Wish you could be a calmer mum

Avoid doing things because of worry or stress

Aim for perfect but feel you fall short

Feel lost

Doubt yourself and your ability to be a good mum

Worry about how you'll manage going back to work

Feel anxious a lot of the time

Want to ENJOY more of being a mum

Do you want things to be different? To be better?

“Since becoming a part of Clare Flaxen’s Resilient Mum group I have had the confidence to speak out more about the realities of my tough mum moments, getting genuine love and support from a lovely group of women. I have taken part in several of Clare’s services - her calm mum workshop, a couple of group video call sessions and most valuably to me - several private sessions. She has an incredible way of reading through all the chaos of my feelings and figuring out the root, giving me sensible goals and has taught me the power of accepting any and all emotions as normal. That it is ok to be fed up or angry or sad but that there is something that can make you feel better when you need it - your own mind!

Working with Clare has given me tricks that have stopped me shouting so much and feeling so out of control with my family, given me direction in my career and truthfully - hope that my mind won’t always be quite so noisy!”

Kelly Rigg, mum of a toddler and a new baby

Let me show you how to….

Manage the stress & overwhelm

Understand when you’re aiming for perfect and go for being a good mum instead

Feel like you’re doing a better job as a mum

Enjoy more of motherhood!

Deal with the emotional highs and lows

Feel more in control (and be OK with not always being in control)

Be a calmer mum when the pressure’s on

Manage times of change

Get more confident as a parent

Stop anxiety from stopping you